Premarital Sex

Premarital sex is a huge problem in society today. People everywhere are not waiting until they get married to have sex. People having sex today are not aware of the consequences that come with having sex. They just think it is fun and there are nothing other than fun comes with having sex. But have you consider the effects or the moral damages when you engage in this kind of activity? Have you ever consider getting married before having sex?

Christianity teaches that having sex before getting married is wrong.  People should learn to understand one another and understand that sex is a big step in relationships. If it were not a big step there would be no point to get married. What's the point of getting married if a person could have sex with anyone he/she wanted?  But always be reminded that sex should be done after marriage.

The conservative position rejects sexual relations outside of marriage because marriage is viewed as the ultimate pact that a man and woman can make. It is akin to a promise to a make one another flourish, to be happy and of course be faithful. For me,  nonmarital sex cannot guarantee the sincerity and fidelity of a relationship, nor protect it against changes in desire, but I believed marriage can guarantee these things. Moreover , sex is permissible only if it takes place in a context where commitment is guaranteed. So, sex outside of marriage, including premarital sex, is not permissible.

So for me,  premarital sex is very wrong because it does not only violates the Church but also creates a bad impact on our morality.  I believed that sex must only be between two persons who have committed,  through marriage, has the right to engage in this kind of activity.  I must also say that sex is a sacred activity which must not be done just for pleasure but should be done with love,  trust and commitment.