Are Your Feelings Right?

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you wait with them even if it take long. You do not just show care for them but you also show kindness and gentleness. Showing care for people may not be appreciated always, but at least you know you’ve made them feel of your affection towards them.

Being surrounded with mushy couples makes you feel the pressure in entering a relationship. Commonly, teens nowadays find themselves with a partner that they say they love. You being surrounded by them would feel lonely and alone. Alone like no one cares and loves you. Alone like being invisible from these people’s own worlds. But like what I said in the previous paragraph, no one wants to be alone. Clearly stated indeed. Thus, you seek to find your partner in the big pond of single individuals. You get to feel attracted easily, and most probably flirt. You accept courtship from individuals who pass your check list for an ideal lover. Usually, people base it on looks. They say it’s what that gets them to fall in love. By experiencing such, you make yourself believe that there’s love in whatever relationship you have, since you do and say the same mushy things like truly in love couples do. Then after a while, you realize that you don’t feel infatuated to that someone anymore. That’s when you start to find another person who would fill that lost feeling.

Love is a deep and complicated feeling. It is a long-live affection towards another person. Love can be very painful if you don’t understand it well. Infatuation, on the other hand, is a shallow, short-live affection that can be described in words. How, then, can you be so sure of your interpreted feeling of love? Did you take in account these natural actions of a teenager? How deep have your feelings gone? Like the depths of the oceans? Or the depths of the pool? Don’t get me wrong but I doubt that you feel the real feeling of being in love. But I don’t have the right to say, do I? You may get confused with your feelings because like what they say, “You can have a million crush, but just one love.” So, are your feelings right?